Surviving the Holidays
picture of a woman's hands holding a luscious whole turkey and sumptuous foodThey say it's the most wonderful time of year. But, why does it come with so many headaches? We'll talk about saving for the holidays, how to stay healthy, and remembering what's important to surviving this time of year while keeping our sanity—and wellness—intact.

Saving for the Holidays
Among the preeminent concerns is saving during the holidays and not busting your budget. One way to ensure you don't is buying early. No need to wait till Black Friday; you can wrap up your holiday shopping well before Thanksgiving. Retailers have beena young heterosexual couple sitting behind a menorah extending the holiday season for years now; so, you can get some good deals even early in the fall. And, when you are buying, pick a site or store that would serve most, if not all, the people on your list, so you can get a good discount on a larger purchase (e.g., save 30% if you spend at least $250). But, very importantly, make a budget before each purchase (online) or shopping trip (in-person), and stick to it, no matter the glitzy promos or sales signs. To ensure you don't miss a good discount, subscribe to your go-to—or coveted—brands for notifications, newsletters, etc. so you'll be among the first to know, especially for flash sales. No matter the hype, and how many times it pops up in your feed, don't get caught up in trends. Focus on what will be appreciated by your nearest and dearest, and what will make a special gift—not what "they" tell you to get. But, don't feel pressured to get a gift for everyone. For close friends and relatives, a heartfelt card or a precious keepsake you make (a picture, a woodwork or even a song) may even be more cherished. 

Stay Healthy

closeup of a Christmas tree's branches with an ornament, reading Merry Christmas, in the foregroundHealth never takes a holiday—nor should your regimen. Even with the planning, the visiting, the shopping, and the cooking, carve out "me time" for workouts and your wellness routine. You can do 15 bicycle crunches right after you wake up and do a five-minute affirmation or meditation right before breakfast. You can squeeze in holotropic, deep-breathing during your lunch break. To further sustain your health regimen, make your favorite holiday dishes healthy. You can use skim ricotta or seasoned tomato for your macaroni and cheese. Make "strategic swaps" to deliver nutrition while boosting the flavor. You can also skip the drinks. Health also means nurturing your emotional well-being. Despite the pressures, only be around people you love, and who love you back. Spending time with those with whom you share deep, long-standing bonds is more fulfilling than larger, even luxurious, gatherings (Raus, 2024). And, even just a few of these intimate gatherings are more valuable than a slew of holiday meet-and-greets. And, you don't have to go to everything. You can always say "no." Just be there for who really matters. That also includes you. Not taking time to decompress can actually give rise to systemic chronic disease and comorbidities (Agorastos & Chrousos, 2014; Vadakkiniath, 2023). On the other hand, participating in engaging, and challenging, exercise and activities that invigorate you can actually alleviate physiological damage inflicted by stress and nurture the foundation for recovery (Tsatsoulis & Fountoulakis, 2006). Celebrate the holidays the way that satisfies you—not the tradition (McLean, 2024). And, that can mean finally getting the help you need. Check emotionsanonymous.org for emotional-support resources or dbsalliance.org for support with depression, mood disorder or bipolar disorder (Northwestern Medicine, 2023). Do not hesitate to call 988 if you, or someone close, is at risk of suicide.

 

Remembering What's Important

The holidays are the perfect time to remember what's really important, those thingsthree pairs of hands, each holding a glass of wine, and clinking in a toast that can't be measured with a price tag. We talked about making time for your nearest and dearest; but, let them know how much you love them. Make time for special moments with them that will take them through the holiday season, and the years ahead. Schedule at least one weekend a month, for November and December, that's for you or with your partner—only. And, get that "me time" again—a few moments per day or a couple of times per week—to reflect or meditate. Get centered and remain open. Then, envision the future that you want, and need, to see. Plan for a better year, set goals—write three to five objectives—and strategize. Let this be the time to pursue a better you. This holiday will be your holislay.New Year's fireworks

Reference 

Agorastos, A., & Chrousos, G. P. (2022). The neuroendocrinology of stress: The stress-related continuum of chronic disease development. Molecular Psychiatry, 27(1), 502-513. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41380-021-01224-9

McLean Hospital. (2024). Caring for your mental health during the holidays. https://deconstructingstigma.org/guides/holidays

Northwestern Medicine. (2023). Seven tips to help with holiday stress.

Raus, A. (2024). Five tips for managing holiday stress. https://www.ynhhs.org/articles/managing-holiday-stress

Tsatsoulis, A., & Fountoulakis, S. (2006). The protective role of exercise on stress system dysregulation and comorbidities. Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences, 1083(1), 196-213. https://doi.org/10.1196/annals.1367.020

Vadakkiniath, I. J. (2023). Prevalence and correlates of stress, anxiety, and depression in patients with chronic diseases: a cross-sectional study. Middle East Current Psychiatry, 30(1), 1-14. https://doi.org/10.1186/s43045-023-00340-2 

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